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I love your perspectives and insights, Tara! And your guidance for strategic and tactical planning.

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I haven’t the time to go into this in detailed length now, but briefly; Don’t be hypocritical. Don’t expect your “opponents” to be perfect either. I don’t expect perfection from anyone (the current societal desire to tear down anyone or anything for any mistake, ever, is neurotic-making and frankly counter-productive.) Every human should “Mind yourself first”: ie) “Remove the plank from your own eye before you point out the speck in mine.” Therefore, using your example, first 1.)make sure of the facts and what is true or what is “narrative”/“controlling the narrative”/ “spin”, etc. 2.) Make sure you have gone through all legitimate processes first; that is what they are there for. One of the reasons people criticize is because if everyone just goes out and protests about everything all the time it really emphasizes mob rule. Yes, mob rule. Make sure you know how legislation etc really works and what your responsibilities, not just rights, as a citizen are. I’ve testified before my State’s legislature’s committees, that is one of the things you are supposed to do first- talk to your representatives. Otherwise it makes institutions, whatever you think of them, superfluous, hence the mob rule reference. Make sure before you protest you have used all other means possible to influence change. Really. Press included. If it finally comes down to protesting, AS A LAST RESORT, then make sure you can prove to the public, press, and government, that you have done all of those other things first (“going up the chain of command”/ following the process, not circumventing it. It’s there for a reason, and not to obviate the rule of the people.) It will be important to show your fellow citizens you have tried to get resolution through rule of law and process of citizenship. If it comes down to protesting, then absolutely yes you must be extra careful to be peaceful and respectful to your fellow citizens and the society as a whole, not in what you are protesting against, but how you go about it. Therein also lies a chief difference between “protest” and Mob rule/ Mob Action. Think Jan 6 USA capitol. So yes, don’t burn, bust up, deface, or destroy property. Martin Luther King Jr didn’t and neither did Ghandi and their names live on in protest history BECAUSE of their prior attempts to get resolution through rule of law and legislative institutions first, and their organized PEACEFUL & respectful protests. They made sure of it. That is much more powerful and effective, as protest, than any other kind of protest, unless it is for the overthrow of a dictatorial government. So no, anything to draw attention to the cause (“ends justify the means”) isn’t legitimate in a ‘democratic society’. Your example of the kayakers: take the criticisms of your opponents into consideration. My husband made a beautiful wooden kayak in a month or two, having never made one before nor done any major woodworking projects before, after doing a little research, talking to people at shows, and buying woodworking plans. You can and should too because it also shows that you know people who buy oil contributed to the problem and you are already reducing your impact. Start at home with yourself first. You don’t have to be perfect or “pious”, but you too must make the effort and pay the price you exhort from others. It also requires, and therefore shows, you have thought things through.

Try a less adversarial approach first, go through the process, not with an eye to “protest”, but with a genuine eye to resolution, and if all else fails, PEACEFUL AND RESPECTFUL protest is then appropriate. Remember, you want your fellow citizens support since a “democracy” is “rule of the people, by the people, for the people” and not just for one specific group or cause. That is why people criticize. Especially when younger protesters don’t even know exactly how laws are made or changed, how to seek redress from that process, how to contact and talk to a representative to get their support, nor especially how to testify before committee to sway the result, legally, morally, and legitimately your way. Making a “scene” by breaking store windows or setting cars and tires on fire or throwing rocks does the exact opposite of what you say you want. I know of a woman who’s sweeter was stolen so she randomly stole someone else’s sweater as some sort of karmic justice. BS. That’s the equivalent when you destroy someone else’s property to “get attention for the cause” and should come as no surprise when they criticize. They are justified, you are not. That’s mature democracy.

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